• Black Tie Optional

    Black tie optional gives men the option of wearing a tuxedo or a suit and tie. We understand a tuxedo might be a lot of pressure, so a full suit is perfect. But if you’ve got a tuxedo or want to wear one, it’s time to dust it off and show out!

    Women should wear formal, floor-length dresses or pantsuits.

    And no—you do not need to dress in all black!

  • We respectfully ask that white, ivory, cream, gold, champagne, and similar bridal shades be reserved for the bride. Apricot is reserved for the wedding party.

  • Please refer to your invitation for all guests included in your party.

  • While we love hanging with all your little ones, this is an adults-only event. Parents, take the night off and party with us!

  • The ceremony will take place at Sacred Heart of Jesus 353 Main St Highland Falls, NY.

    Cocktail hour and reception to follow at The Thayer Hotel 674 Thayer Rd West Point, NY.

  • Yes, bring a valid government-issued ID. Please, please, please don’t forget this.

  • We will not the providing transportation. The church and hotel are conveniently located just half a mile apart (less than a three-minute drive). We encourage guests to carpool when possible. Complimentary parking is available at both the church and hotel.

  • Yes, click here to book under our room block with a discount. Thayer Hotel Reservations are made on a first come first serve basis. For those looking for alternative lodging, please visit this page.

    The Army football schedule gets released in February 2027 and nearby accommodations will book up quickly.

  • Yes, the ceremony is unplugged. We invite everyone to be present in the moment with us and refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony (no Facebook Live, TikTok, Instagram Live, Snapchat etc.) We hired an incredible team to capture this special moment.

  • Yes, the cocktail hour will be indoor/outdoor. The afterparty will take place at Zulu Lounge on the roof of The Thayer Hotel.

  • After seven years of living together, we’re nearly everything we need! If you’d like to celebrate us with a gift, we would be grateful for a contribution to our house/honeymoon fund. For those who prefer a traditional gift, you can find our registry here.