• Black Tie Optional

    Black tie optional gives men the option of wearing a tuxedo or a suit and tie. We understand a tuxedo might be a lot of pressure, so a full suit is perfect. But if you’ve got a tuxedo or want to wear one, it’s time to dust it off and show out!

    Women should wear formal, floor-length dresses or pantsuits.

    And no—you do not need to dress in all black!

  • We respectfully ask that white, ivory, cream, gold, champagne, and similar bridal shades be reserved for the bride. Peach is reserved for the wedding party.

  • Please refer to your invitation for all guests included in your party.

  • While we love hanging with all your little ones, this is an adults-only event. Parents, take the night off and party with us!

  • We’re getting married at Sacred Heart of Jesus Church in Highland Falls, NY. We encourage guests to arrive at 1:45pm to ensure they have time to get settled.

    The cocktail hour and reception will follow at The Thayer Hotel in West Point, NY.

  • Yes, bring a valid government-issued ID. Please, please, please don’t forget this.

  • We won’t be providing transportation. The church and hotel are half a mile apart (less than a three-minute drive), and we highly encourage guests to carpool. Parking is available at both locations.

  • Yes, it’s first come first served for reservations. Click here to book under our room block with a discount. For those looking for alternative lodging, please visit this page.

    The Army football schedule gets released in February 2027 and nearby accommodations will book up quickly.

  • Yes, we invite everyone to be present in the moment with us and refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony. We hired an incredible team to capture this special moment.

  • The cocktail hour will be indoor/outdoor, and the afterparty will take place at The Thayer Hotel’s rooftop lounge, Zulu.

  • After seven years of living together, we’re nearly everything we need! If you’d like to celebrate us with a gift, we would be grateful for a contribution to our honeymoon fund. For those who prefer a traditional gift, you can find our registry here.

  • Up until two weeks before the wedding, reach out to either of us with questions! For any questions closer to the day of, please contact our wedding planner Lauren LaSorsa.

    Lauren: (732)275-4420
    Raul: (646)225-1935
    Jennifer: (845)372-8120